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Harriette Cole: I Divorced Him, and His Reaction Irritated Me
HARRIETTE: I had dinner with my ex-husband lately. We had not communicated in about two years after our divorce was finalized. I was expecting to reconnect and possibly explore the possibilities of friendship. I’m not sure what I was anticipating when we met for dinner, but I certainly wasn’t expecting the conclusion.
I asked him how he was coping with our divorce about halfway through the night. His reaction was that he was perfectly fine with our divorce and recognized it was for the best. He appeared unconcerned about what had occurred. I’m not sure why this upset me so much, given that I was the one who filed for divorce in the first place, but I’ve been in a funk over it for days. Is it wrong for me to feel this way?
My mum died when she was about my age from a chronic condition. So far, I have not been diagnosed with this sickness, but I am increasingly concerned that it will strike me any day now. I am aware that my concerns are ridiculous, but I am concerned. I am in a serious relationship, and we are considering marriage. I’m afraid that if I married and then become unwell, it will be disastrous for my husband.
Get a full physical and tell your doctor about your family history and any pre-existing problems you may have. Be open and honest with your doctor so that he or she can give you an accurate and full assessment of your health. Bring whatever you discover to your fiance to discuss. Armed with the truth, you may sit down and plan your future, whether you have an illness or not.
Many people with chronic or terminal illnesses choose to marry. Stop being concerned about prospective issues. Determine your current health situation, and then make decisions together once you have all of the data. I recently went out to supper with my ex-husband. We had not communicated in about two years after our divorce was finalized.
I was expecting to reconnect and possibly explore the possibilities of friendship. I’m not sure what I was anticipating when we met for dinner, but I certainly wasn’t expecting the conclusion. I asked him how he was coping with our divorce about halfway through the night. His reaction was that he was perfectly fine with our divorce and recognized it was for the best. He appeared unconcerned about what had occurred.
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